Twenty-eight years ago, on Sunday, May 13th, 1984 my father died of a sudden heart attack. It happened in front of his family. It was at his son’s college graduation. It was on Mother’s Day. He was 59.
From that day forward, every Mother’s Day has been an honoring of both my mom and dad.
This year, 2012, Mother’s Day happens to fall on the 13th, and a Sunday.
Dad was a man who encouraged, guided, and dreamed. He prepared his five children in a loving, consistent way. His hard work provides for mom to this day. Even today, it is very easy to tap into his wisdom and guidance.
Dad used to say, “Whatever career you choose, be the best at it.”
Dad used to say, “Keep your mind on school, not girls.”
Dad used to say, “Learn, and then teach me.”
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Thanks for sharing your story, Ara. You’ve always been so open in your art and essays. I appreciate the personal depth of both.
Thank you Martha.That openness you speak of comes from being comfortable even when talking about uncomfortable things. Because translating experiences is part of the writer’s process. It helps us reach more people but it’s good for our health, too.
Sounds eerily familiar, Ara.
My father passed away on Fathers Day 1988, of a massive heart attack at only 50. So, an ironic anniversary every year.
Good to hear you are getting hits from various countries, and wishing you success. 🙂
So sorry to hear that Jack. Fifty is much too young.
A very touching story Ara,,,and one of great hope.
You were a big help the day after Greg. Thanks so much for that.
Such a beautiful remberance of your father..you are a tribute to your family. Thank you for including me to share this beautiful story, and I do remember it well.
Thank you Phyllis. Long-term friends like you are another connection with my dad. He would be very happy with your words.
Such a beautiful tribute Ara. I’m sure your Dad would be very proud of all that you’ve accomplished and to see what a devoted son you are to your Mom. Hope the weekend is ok- all things considered… Jen
Hi Jen. Yes I think he would be happy to see that his son was continuing the arc he nurtured.